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Should I give up? I’m in love with guy.. he told me he doesn’t want a relationship but then.. sometimes.. he flirts with me.. and he is the most… funniest guy Ive met. He makes me smile and so happy.. but.. I mean nothing to him. I think. What do I do..
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Anonymous 5w

That got cold behavior literally gets your brain addicted. You start to seek the dopamine hit of getting that attention and not regard the ultimate pit you’ll fall into when they withhold attention. The best advice I can offer as I get older is that you have to move on cuz the best revenge is not needing them at all. Immerse yourself into other dating options or friends. Don’t let this guy string you along like a junkie - you deserve real consistent attention.

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Anonymous 5w

he's just toying with you for the attention, OP

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Anonymous 5w

He makes me happier than I’ve been in months. But that could just be my poor taste in men talking..

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Do you want commitment or affirming attention?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Im not asking for a commitment do I guess his attention. I know it’s not worth it but idk.. why im so strung out about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

If you don't want commitment, and you'd like attention... consider creating a situation that indicates you be open to sex. He'll almost certainly give you attention then

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Haha no wouldn’t that be the way. Idk.. I don’t want that either really.. but you’re right he’d probably be all up in my messages talking to me. He’s just really cool and maybe I idolize him too much…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Well another option is to learn from the people who are close to him. Do you know who his close friends are and why they are his friends?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

It’d because I’m a girl. 95% sure. If I was dude being friends with him would be easier I’m sure.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Well.. I tried to help. Best of luck!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

This is the realest thing someone could’ve told me. Thank you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I was hoping this wasn’t the case.. but the consistency of replies saying this. Is hard to ignore.

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