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6 upvotes, 17 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "How do I reply to this"
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Anonymous 9w

Sometimes as a straight guy I get worried abt if other single straight guys im competing against r better than me and i am reminded its actually these freaks and im fine.

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Anonymous 9w

Just block and report him.

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Anonymous 9w

it’s giving misogyny

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Anonymous 9w

Just block to be honest.

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Anonymous 9w

first off, you’re not telling him how to live you just proved that he’s part of the problem. second, no man gets to tell his woman what she can and can’t wear let’s face it, if we had that power then men would be wearing straightjackets day in and day out he’s too far gone, good luck 🫡

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Anonymous 9w

Need the context but like others I sort of see his point. He’s not saying he’d do it, so I don’t know why you’d report him. You gave insight on why he can’t get a women; he gave insight on - I assume- why he stopped talking to you / what turned him off. Just note it mentally as a possible perspective on how guys could see you and move on.

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Anonymous 9w

What’s the context?

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Anonymous 9w

idk I kinda agree with him a little, it’s weird for a girl to WANT to dress sleazily first of all but for the guy to also be completely ok with it is kinda wild, kinda does feel like “I like it when other guys jerk off to my girl”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

The post was op saying he’s a high value man and all woman dress like prostitutes and are whores

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I feel like I’ve seen his posts before. Someone like that is hardly worth engaging with. He didn’t reason himself into those beliefs (he felt emotional and worked backwards to create the beliefs around it) so you won’t be able to reason him out of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

It’s the whole mindset that’s messed up. For example - I don’t think highly of going out in super skimpy clothes either, but “not allowing” her is not how it works. A man can ask his partner not to do that out of respect for him, or he can decide to break up because she keeps doing that, but he doesn’t “allow” her like he’s a parent. And, of course, the thing about blaming sexual assault on the clothes makes it clear he is utterly dense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

so many red flags. weird ass mindset.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I don’t think there should be “allowing” going on either but for him to just be ok with it is weird. He should want to respectfully ask her to stay within his boundaries, which should be not wanting her to parade her body around for everyone to see. but she shouldn’t want to parade her body around for everyone in the first place, especially if she’s in a relationship, so

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

i was given this body and i will wear what i want, when i want. whether or not you support me in my confidence is completely up to you. it’s not about ‘sleazy, slutty, skimpy, or flaunting’ it’s about how i feel when i wear it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Because societally, you’ve been conditioned to place worth in showing off your body. You feel good being a slut because society has taught you that you should. It’s backwards, you should not feel comfortable being half naked in anywhere public besides a beach or a pool.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Are u a guy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

I feel good dressing how I choose to because I’m a grown adult. If men want to find a woman who doesn’t dress like that, fine. But going after women who dress like that and then comparing about it is just weird. And calling women who do sluts and whores is crazy behavior.

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