first off, you’re not telling him how to live you just proved that he’s part of the problem. second, no man gets to tell his woman what she can and can’t wear let’s face it, if we had that power then men would be wearing straightjackets day in and day out he’s too far gone, good luck 🫡
Need the context but like others I sort of see his point. He’s not saying he’d do it, so I don’t know why you’d report him. You gave insight on why he can’t get a women; he gave insight on - I assume- why he stopped talking to you / what turned him off. Just note it mentally as a possible perspective on how guys could see you and move on.
It’s the whole mindset that’s messed up. For example - I don’t think highly of going out in super skimpy clothes either, but “not allowing” her is not how it works. A man can ask his partner not to do that out of respect for him, or he can decide to break up because she keeps doing that, but he doesn’t “allow” her like he’s a parent. And, of course, the thing about blaming sexual assault on the clothes makes it clear he is utterly dense.
I don’t think there should be “allowing” going on either but for him to just be ok with it is weird. He should want to respectfully ask her to stay within his boundaries, which should be not wanting her to parade her body around for everyone to see. but she shouldn’t want to parade her body around for everyone in the first place, especially if she’s in a relationship, so