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How do you have bad body images issues if people wanna fuck you?
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Anonymous 1d

I’m going to imagine this is a good faith question. Someone can want to fuck you and not find you attractive.

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Anonymous 1d

Buddy there are men that fuck anything they can get their hands on. Women and queer people are more effort and personality based. I have this picture in my head of what I want to look like, most women do, and it’s been reinforced by media and society for our entire lives. We grew up with our mothers starving themselves, instagram flitter people, and brands capitalizing on our insecurities. We’ve seen the internet attack and scrutinize every aspect of women who we respect and think are beautiful

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Anonymous 1d
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Anonymous 1d

Because I believe I pull proportionally to my looks

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Anonymous 1d

Because my own flaws are way more emphasized in my own mind than other peoples’

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Anonymous 16h

Because the people who want to fuck me are gross

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

It is good faith…. I’m not sure it makes sense to be able to fuck somebody or want to fuck somebody that you’re not attracted to.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You seem to think the only thing that matters is attractiveness. I was sexually harassed by people who were very clear about how little they found me attractive. It’s about power.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

Power to do what?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Also I was bullied for how I looked as a child and teenager. Just because I actually had a glow up doesn’t mean that the harassment I faced went away

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

People sexually assault and harass because they want power. The same thing can be done with rape. Not every rapist is attracted to who they rape. Power is a huge component in the harassment.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

What’s the power for?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

Are you considering teasing the same thing as bullying?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Jesus are you not reading what I’m saying? Like genuinely.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

I was asking what the power is for ….I’m tracking the entire conversation. You just never explained what the power is for. What does the power do? What is it for?… why do they need it?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

No. I mean I was threatened to be raped, I had constant comments about my chest, my weight, my body- literally anything you could criticize someone for. I was stalked home while having obscenities yelled at me the whole time. Girls are absolutely bullied. I feared for my safety everyday.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You want me to explain why people enjoy power? Not happening. Use your brain. Some people want to hurt others and enjoy it.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 1d

I don’t see joy in exerting power of others so it’s kind of difficult for me to understand why someone would

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah well I don’t understand it either but people do it all the time. Rape does happen. We can’t logic it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1d

We see how elderly women get treated, how curvy women are shamed, and the truth of pretty privilege. But we can’t be too pretty or “sexy” otherwise society calls us slurs or assumes we are stupid. Men start to think appearance is an invitation. So we have to balance this impossible line between the two

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

Gross or not attractive to you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

I mean they do things like get 50% of their calories from junk food, don’t wash their asses, have a 6th grade reading level, are 45 hitting on 19 year olds, etc. To me that is gross but call it what you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 15h

How old are you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

23

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14h

And you mean to tell me there’s nobody your age that washes themselves and has a diverse diet that wants to fuck you?

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