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For background, I’m not the most conventionally attractive guy. I’m not the ugliest (at least I’d like to think that). So, how do I properly flirt with a woman without creeping her out? Aim for flattery and not being weird if that makes sense.
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Anonymous 3w

Inquire about her interests. I like when men do that

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Anonymous 3w

Compliment her makeup, hair or the color of her clothing to her complexion. Interesting topics that can keep it open for other topics ( not politics obviously). Get after it king 👑

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Anonymous 3w

Be funny.

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Anonymous 3w

Oh yeah for context, this is for the goal of a long term relationship, not a hookup

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Anonymous 3w

keep on working on your self care and don’t worry about flirting. u dont have to be the hottest but having a good skincare routine and being clean/smelling good makes you less likely to be rejected.

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Anonymous 3w

Honestly it’s not abt flirting, it’s more about showing her your genuine and that she’s safe with you. As a woman, I look for someone who makes me feel safe and who is genuine. If you focus on flirting it give off fuck boy vibes. If you are genuine and just walk up and say hey I thought you were cute do you wanna grab a coffee I’m more inclined to say yes vs if you went your shoes are cute or you have pretty hair

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Anonymous 3w

Context is very important here. Where do you know the from?

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Anonymous 3w

Make your intentions clear so you don’t end up in the friend zone

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Just some college classes

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Anonymous replying to -> wing_leader 3w

Noted :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Best advice so far. Thank you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

This is so true. The ones I’ve been actually romantically interested in felt genuine and made me feel safe before anything else, and that’s why I felt able to get closer to them in the first place.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

If I’m not visually attractive to you would you say yes if I do the genuine one?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Yes. I don’t believe that love is based on looks rather the more you love someone the more physically attractive they are to you

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