Ask Women on Yik Yak | Why has my girlfriend started kissing me less and less I believe she still loves me but it seems whenever she gets stressed she stops letting me kiss her and initiating kisses and that hurts me. (Looking for advice)

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Ask Women 21h

Why has my girlfriend started kissing me less and less I believe she still loves me but it seems whenever she gets stressed she stops letting me kiss her and initiating kisses and that hurts me. (Looking for advice)

Anonymous 20h

answer: stress lowers libido and feelings of intimacy for most people advice: accept that this is fairly common and normal. offer to help her destress and don't be offended if she doesn't have anything for you to do. reconsider how you frame her stress as hurting you; if you're hurt by this it's the result of unrealistic expectations placed on her

Anonymous 21h

have you talked to her about it?

Anonymous

#1 21h

Yah ☹️

Anonymous

#1 21h

She doesn’t know what to do about it

Anonymous

OP 21h

but she agrees it happens?

Anonymous

#1 20h

Yah but I think from what I have understood from our conversations she doesn’t really know how to fix it and also doesn’t know when it will improve

Anonymous

#2 20h

I would honestly say I don’t have unrealistic expectations for her. I’m more hurt by the fact that she doesn’t explain why she pulls away, and that causes me pain, especially when it happens for months at a time. From my point of view I used to receive multiple kisses a day to now I barely receive one a week. I want to support her as best as possible but it’s been a few months and I’m struggling.

Anonymous

#2 20h

What would you say is a realistic expectation of her? And how do you know when expectations need to change and for how long?

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Anonymous

OP 8h

this whole situation reminds me of things my ex would do. “i know what’s happening, but idk what u want me to do abt it” when there’s a clear fix.