They aren’t even allowed to pick me up until the third date, too many horror stories can’t trust many people these days.

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I think it depends on how long you know the person. Like if you are both on a college campus I don’t see the harm. If you two have been friends for a while it makes sense. A guy you are meeting for the first time? No thanks.

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living in an apartment idc like even if he knows where i live he doesn’t know which of the 25 floors im on or what apartment im in. but if you live in a house or an apartment without much security it’s good to be more careful

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okay so apparently i’m way too trusting lol

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i have but it was while i was living on/near campus. obviously vibe check them on the date but i felt safe doing so bc of campus security, my building either had a proctor or you needed a key to get in, and the fact that i’d be moving after a semester anyway. don’t think i would let it happen if i was living on my own post grad tho, i think college is different

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Nah wait for a bit. You can never be too safe with new guys, cause some people take advantage of that

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