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Is it a valid enough reason to break up with my bf if he bores me
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Anonymous 13h

Yes pls dont stay with someone you dont want to imagine how terrible otd feel if someone stayed with you even though they thought you were boring

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Anonymous 12h

Yeah just don’t be cruel about it yanno. You don’t have to tell him that’s why

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Anonymous 8h

Wait hold up, how long have you been with him? It’s normal to get bored eventually and you can get the spark back if you actually love him, but if it’s been a short amount of time it makes perfect sense to just end it. A long amount of time you can still end it but I personally would try a little harder to bring the spark back first

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Anonymous 13h

Yea

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Anonymous 11h

Yes. Monotony is number 1 reason people cheat.

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Anonymous 10h

Lord please never let me date a woman like this 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

True

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10h

I don’t wanna cheat I just wanna leave

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10h

Science please never let me date a man like this atom 🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

What? If I bore you then you should have never agreed to be my gf to begin with. If being boring is significantly more important than whatever you fell for in the beginning then you’re just shallow

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

Okay. Good. ✅ Usually women who cheat always regret it. They lose someone they care about.. but tbh, u want to lose him though.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

omg..

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8h

If you cheated on him, you never really cared about him

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8h

yeah but like idk, shes bored and wants to lose him so like .. if its long term, Id think she cared about him. Idk. Tbh, best decisions are ones where u pick whats right for u as people have emotions and feelings as well as yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7h

It’s been more than 6 months but we only see each other like once a month so I’m just losing interest

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

That’s totally valid

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1h

Its not shallow I think you’re ignoring the fact that people change and grow over time and as a result, one person might get bored of the other. You want someone in your life that brings peace but also pushes and excites you. SHE IS THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU SHOULD HOPE FOR She’s being considerate enough to not waste anyone’s time, AND she’s not a cheater.

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