
Wait hold up, how long have you been with him? It’s normal to get bored eventually and you can get the spark back if you actually love him, but if it’s been a short amount of time it makes perfect sense to just end it. A long amount of time you can still end it but I personally would try a little harder to bring the spark back first
Its not shallow I think you’re ignoring the fact that people change and grow over time and as a result, one person might get bored of the other. You want someone in your life that brings peace but also pushes and excites you. SHE IS THE TYPE OF WOMAN YOU SHOULD HOPE FOR She’s being considerate enough to not waste anyone’s time, AND she’s not a cheater.