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Ask Women 13h
I fucked shit up. Promised change and then would get comfortable and go back to my old shit happened more then I want to admit. However now I’m working on it in many different ways including things like therapy. Do I have a chance to get her back? Or no?
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Anonymous 13h

Let sleeping dogs lie. Prove your growth going forward, its unfair to you and her to keep trying after youve hurt her

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Anonymous 13h

You broke a promise. We don’t know what happened but you didn’t keep a promise, and you had a chance to work on it. You need to let her go.

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Anonymous 12h

Imo it’s hard to come back from this, coming from someone who came out of a relationship like that. If you can’t implement longterm change she’s only going to keep getting tired of it. Keep going to therapy and doing the work because it’s good but keep in mind there’s no guarantee that she will want to come back

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 13h

why does she say “I don’t get what’s taking you so long” (talking bout me changing). And then the next day talk about some “we are never getting back together”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

She’s saying that she doesn’t understand how hard it was to change. That what she was asking for wasn’t particularly hard.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 13h

So why is she upset that I’ve slowed down to really make myself better if she doesn’t want to get back together?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12h

My thing is I wanna move slow to prove to my self and her that what I’m doing is permanent. I’m scared by rushing things I will be tempted to revert.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

She’s not upset. She’s frustrated that it took you this long, and her leaving for you to actually listen to her.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 12h

So just leave it be then?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Well yeah duh. You two aren’t together.

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