
i’m 5’5 and my partner is 6’5, and side lying is always comfortable for us both! i recommend also trying to set her lower back on a pillow if you’re on top. it helps us personally because he can relax more comfortably on his knees, and i can lay flat without having to lift my bum. another thought: if you guys like doggy, have her lay flat on her tummy and try that way. it’s a little more intense but it works for us:)