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i wish women would extend men LESS empathy and kindness because that has never gotten us anywhere. centuries of women’s kindness has been thrown back in our faces through abuse, rape, and treated as less than because we weren’t born with a dick.
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Anonymous 16w

I’m not kind to men because I believe they gave me rights; I’m kind to men because I believe everyone should be treated with kindness (to a point ofc)

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Anonymous 16w

men have never and will never treat you better or with respect you because you’re nice to them. the only reason we have any rights is because we fought for them. not because they “gave” it to us. and don’t let them make you think they did

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Anonymous 16w

The individual male definitely experienced your, the individual female’s, centuries of unconditional kindness. Therefore you should just be an asshole to men. This seems like really solid reasoning.

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Anonymous 16w

Yes as a woman, I naturally already am standoffish with them. One will interact with me and I will as dry as humanly possible and ngl it’s worked for me 🤷‍♀️ it’s a neutral stance and they tend to get the hint that I’m not interested in talking/interacting and leave me be

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Yes but now that men and women have equal rights shouldn’t we treat each other with equal kindness and respect?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

my point is not being mean for no reason. my point is making your feminism watered down or more palatable to men is not going to get you anywhere with men who don’t care about women’s issues or women’s rights

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

I agree with that, but that has nothing to do with empathy and kindness.

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Anonymous replying to -> sheshouldforkme 16w

equal rights my ass. even beyond the western world, if we look to afghanistan for example women are not permitted to speak or be seen without head to toe coverings in public. and that has been slowly and methodically building through the years there since the taliban has invaded the country. women don’t exist in a single country, this treatment hurts all women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

no it does. for example when “misandry” is brought up, many women say we shouldn’t talk about men that way because it will turn them off from feminism despite misandry being a direct response to misogyny which harms women as a whole, it kills them, it leads to rape culture, while misandry is nothing but hurt men’s feelings and if men cared to understand or hear women’s issues they wouldn’t care about misandry because it doesn’t harm them on any real scale.

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Anonymous 16w

women attempt it more often, men use more violent means. but regardless actually that’s a result of the patriarchy and men being told they should be more manly and not show their feelings. and that’s perpetuated by men far more often than women. it’s not women saying “i hate all men” that’s driving men to kill themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

Exactly it’s giving “and who set that system up” iykyk 😭

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Anonymous 16w

Girl I’m a girl not a man 💀 the quote is reference to the topic of the convo, look it up if u wish

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16w

I don’t believe that misandry is the solution to misogyny. I don’t believe that gender warring helps anything. I understand venting about men and saying negative things. We deserve to do that, and I’m not saying we shouldn’t. But it’s not going to fix anything. Generalizing abt men is bad. We need to talk about systems Overall, men deserve empathy and kindness just like any person. That doesn’t mean changing our feminism or acting to placate men, it just means being a decent person

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Anonymous replying to -> sheshouldforkme 16w

We don’t have equal rights. Men don’t have the right to bodily autonomy (circumcision and the draft)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16w

Ngl this is how I interact with most people especially women

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