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guys i need advice, me and my guy best friend just fucked and we’ve known each other for ten years. is this going to change everything?
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Anonymous 12w

Depends on how well yall communicate, what you want to happen, what he wants, etc

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Anonymous 12w

Yeah

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

i’m gonna talk with him tn 😬 any tips?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

have an idea of what it is you want. i’ve been through similar conversations with some of my friends with situations like this. it’s much easier to talk to people and have a conversation if you know what *exactly* you want. communication is key here. be very transparent, and ask that of him too

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

should i wait to talk to him until i know exactly what it is i want out of it and what to say?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

potentially, it depends how muddled your feelings are. A good place to start is to ask yourself if you want to date or not. that usually sets the tone well enough, and is a good way to lead into other questions, such as “if we’re not dating, do we want to continue having sex?” “do we want to do this regularly?” etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 12w

i just got out of a relationship so i can’t date rn, im not sure if that means we could never date tho. i doubt it’s something that will continue bc he lives farther from me and wont live close to me for another month or so

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