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as a girl, i know a lot of people agree that the guy should pay on the first date (or whoever asked the person on a date), but what happens after? like on later dates and in the relationship how are the expenses of dates and stuff handled? i‘m curious
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Anonymous 2w

That seems that a person by person basis and something the two should talk about

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Anonymous 2w

Idk I do whatever. At first, more 50/50 unless someone offers. Later on in the relationship, we take turns covering everything simply because one person paying takes less time.

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Anonymous 2w

I’ve always wondered that too. I’d rather it just be 50/50 so there’s never any confusion or feeling like something’s being held against you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

This is what I did. We just went back and forth. Lowkey we both fought to be the one to pay

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