I’ve never seen this word before but I guess if that’s what it means then sure I do have a lot of heterofatalism when it comes to frustration dealing with the dating behavior of men

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I mean a lot of men are frustrated with the dating behavior of women, I don’t think this is a purely one directional thing

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I mean I’ve never heard of that word but yeah I have a frustrated outlook with the dating behavior of men. Im not gonna agree with whatever this is beyond that tho bc idk what it is.

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Who’s “we”

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Yes.

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If heteropessimism/fatalism mostly describes women’s disillusionment with men, then it’s not a universal straight experience, it’s a gendered one. Maybe call it femfatalism or amafemfatalism. The “hetero-” label hides the fact that it’s women doing the emotional labor. Although, I disagree with the narrative as another person said- this frustration shouldn’t really be gender specific and actually perpetuates implicit gender roles.

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Yes.

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I’ll switch it up! I’m a straight MAN FRUSTRATED with the dating behavior of WOMEN. Why is no woman interested in something long term? Like genuinely, i feel like telling a woman in her 20s that Im looking for something long term is like telling her im into satanic threesomes!!!!!

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