Anonymous #1 17w

They are though. In the way that nothing is done about it really. We just deal with it as a “oh it’s just how it is” kinda attitude

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Anonymous forget_me_not 17w

But ain’t nothing really to stop it enough from happenin ya know? Ain’t no actual consequences other than some backlash they can pretend ain’t aimed at them

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Anonymous forget_me_not 17w

That’s what I’m saying. Where is it widely accepted. So many ppl get blocked and bashed for sending nudes bc we don’t want them. It’s not accepted bc we’re not accepting and reciprocating it

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Anonymous #1 17w

I’m not saying us girls accept it, Idk if acceptance was the wrong word? just that for some reason it has become normalized and accepted behavior among men to do it.

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Anonymous OP 17w

So you mean why do ppl think it’s okay to send them not that it’s widely accepted bc it isn’t

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Anonymous #1 17w

And more than men send nudes? But not every person does so idk how it’s as widespread as you think. That’s more of a hookup culture and online sexting thing

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Anonymous OP 17w

Who is going around with that attitude

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Anonymous #1 17w

I’m not saying just been send em. Just that it is more normal behavior among men. But I would say men typically send more unsolicited pictures. And unsolicited pictures and the expectation of pictures are what I got an issue with. You making my words mean much more than they do and ain’t quite understanding where I’m coming from but idk if I’m explaining it right

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Anonymous OP 17w

I don’t think ppl are saying it’s okay or that it’s normal. Like I said it’s ppl that send them bc of the culture it stimulates. A lot of ppl don’t do that

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Anonymous #1 17w

You know what I give up. I’ve explained it in so many ways and you just keep repeating yourself. I corrected and said that it is a widespread behavior that needs harsher consequence to keep it from happenin because there ain’t really much consequence to it which is why I think it happens so much

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Anonymous OP 17w

So you didn’t read this comment. You can give up then ig bc no one going around with the “it is what it is” attitude when so many ppl have expressed in here that they hate nudes

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Anonymous #1 17w

I’m not saying that people say it out loud, that attitude. But in the way that we are taught to just block, rant, move on. It’s like giving up bc there isn’t much you can do is what I meant by that

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Anonymous OP 17w

That’s not a “it is what it is” attitude 💀

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Anonymous #1 17w

You really think all men do it? Or is that just a generalized thing

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Anonymous #1 17w

That’s is exactly a version of “it is what it is”. Oh I can’t do anything more than I have so I guess it is what it is. If it happens again I’ll just do what I can and it is what is. ect. “It is what it is” is a I’ve given up attitude basically is what I meant. And ofc not “all men” but if enough snakes are venomous, you might as well be wary of them all, cautious

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Anonymous OP 17w

Are you wanting harsher punishments/consequences like legal action?

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Anonymous forget_me_not 17w

Not legal action. I do feel that’d be a little much but a three strikes and you’re out//IP address tracked so now new accounts can’t be made. Where you could appeal it but if the striked conversations show that you were in fact in the wrong, it stands. Legal action if the person you’re sending it to is underage ofc. Until you are 100% certain of the age of someone you’re sending to- consent or not, you should not send anything. Period

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Anonymous forget_me_not 17w

They get clowned on for it, but they still do it.

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Anonymous #1 17w

Everyone but you basically

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Anonymous #5 17w

I know bc I don’t just say “eh fuck it” and deal with it 😭

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Anonymous #1 17w

Anyways yeah not common behavior

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Anonymous OP 17w

Most apps take unsolicited nudes pretty seriously. Report them and they’ll likely get banned

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Anonymous #1 17w

No fr I think people on this app are either too online or exist in these type of anonymous spaces too much. People asking for nudes is not normalized or accepted, if anything in the past 10yrs it’s become significantly less common especially from people you know. It’s very acceptable to say “no wtf creep” if that’s not something you’re into or if that’s something you find nasty for someone to ask

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