Ask Women on Yik Yak | I’m a particularly horny guy but my girlfriend rarely seems in the mood. It’s like it’s always me initiating. She also doesn’t like anything besides missionary, even though she’s talked abt doing other things with her exes, often while I’m in the room.

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Ask Women 15w

I’m a particularly horny guy but my girlfriend rarely seems in the mood. It’s like it’s always me initiating. She also doesn’t like anything besides missionary, even though she’s talked abt doing other things with her exes, often while I’m in the room.

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Anonymous 15w

Have you tried asking her about how she would feel about initiating? How often do you two do it? Do you make her finish as well?

Anonymous 15w

Have you asked her whether ur really the right sexual fit for her? Clearly as a guy with a high sex drive, that’s going to be an important part of your relationship. You are going to need a girl who feels similar.

Anonymous 15w

Has there ever been an actual conversation about what she might like during the act? Any experimenting?

Anonymous 15w

give more head

Anonymous 15w

2-3 times a week may be too much for her. does she get sore after? i personally get sore sometimes and have to wait 5-7 days at the most before i want to do it again. everyone is different though. she may just have a lower sex drive or she might feel more preserved towards you

Anonymous 15w

Have you brought this to her and told her how it makes you feel?

Anonymous 15w

She swears she’s super into me, but I can’t help but feel like she’s just not as sexually attracted to me as some of her exes. Is there any way to get over this hump?

Anonymous 15w

If we ever argue, it’s de-escalated fairly quickly, like we r never mad at each other. I know some girls get turned on from arguing but i just don’t take her as that type of person, nor am i the person that wants to start arguments for no reason.

Anonymous 15w

Honestly? I’d ask her if there’s anything in particular she wants to try, or anything she opposes completely and see what you can work with. Ask her what in particular she enjoys and ask if she wants to try it. Baby steps

Anonymous

#1 15w

she just says she’s uncomfortable with everything else but it’s been like 8 months and it’s been nothing but smooth sailing the entire time.

Anonymous

#5 15w

The way she talks abt her exes and how we were the the first few weeks, it would seem like hers was high, but it quickly died down.

Anonymous

strawberry_hair 15w

i haven’t asked her abt it, she an anxious person and i don’t want her to worry. We probably do it 2-3 times a week but we sleep together everyday. I’ve made her finish a few times, but not with any regularity, though she promises she doesn’t care.

Anonymous

#3 15w

She sometimes asks me if she’s boring me and how am i supposed to look her in the face and say yes? i feel like it would destroy her and though my sex drive is very high, i still love her to death regardless.

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Anonymous

OP 15w

You should definitely try to have her finish more, that’ll probably help. And you absolutely need to have a conversation about it. Nothing can change without open communication.

Anonymous

OP 15w

I don’t know if I want a woman who was stuck on the sex appeal of her ex…

Anonymous 15w

she did get one but even after i finish i encourage her to keep using the vibrator on herself and she just stops claiming she doesn’t care

Anonymous

#6 15w

i love giving her head, but she’d rather me not and i can’t figure out why. i have good hygiene and have been told i can eat it very well from past partners

Anonymous

OP 15w

she might feel gross during it. not in a bad hygiene way but in a not turned on enough kind of way.

Anonymous

#5 15w

it’s definitely not like that, it’s just come up a few times in random conversations

Anonymous 15w

it wasn’t in a way where i felt she missed it, she always says she hated her other partners. that’s just even more confusing to me as to why she would let them do so much more.

Anonymous 15w

she told me a few months ago that she would have sex with me frequently in the beginning because she wanted me to like her