Anonymous #7 2h

it’s not about the money spent or a transaction.. it’s about having a date and getting to know someone before getting in bed

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Anonymous hellraiser 2h

If that’s what you want to tell yourself ok

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Anonymous #7 2h

Bro what prostitute is working for the price of a basic ass restaurant dinner in this economy 💀💀💀🤣 like what do you think olive garden soup salad and breadsticks gets you?

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Anonymous #7 2h

prostitutes don’t actually want to have sex with the ppl they sleep with. why would i fuck someone i don’t want to fuck just because they bought me dinner?

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Anonymous #7 2h

Just whining because you want the baddie but don’t have baddie money. Going on a date ain’t cheap on either side. New or partially new outfit/shoes, maybe hair & nails, any makeup skincare that needs inventory refresh (especially for girls that don’t usually wear it but want to look good that night). Guys investment is dinner reasonably, starting at $30. I don’t know a single woman that wouldn’t spend probably around $50+ prepping for that same night. But since it’s not spent in one go you don’t

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Anonymous #5 2h

Think of that investment the same way.

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Anonymous #5 2h

All the money that woman is spending is for herself so that is irrelevant

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Anonymous #5 2h

In most parts of the world a dinner bill would be more than enough for a prostitute

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Anonymous #7 2h

And the man isn’t spending money on a good meal for himself? Go survive on your boy kibble and be sad ig.

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Anonymous #5 2h

That would only be true if he paid for himself and not the girl so it’s not even analogous. The man benefits in no way from the woman spending money on makeup she was going to buy regardless of the date 💀

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Anonymous #7 2h

You think that a woman puts on a push-up bra, itchy ass lace thong, and and commits to an hour or two of makeup and hair doing just for shits and giggles? 💀

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Anonymous #5 2h

You’re going to have to try harder to troll. Obviously paying for dinner is a different cost depending on the number of people. A woman’s makeup cost was the same unless she literally was not going to wear makeup on days she wasn’t going on a date

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Anonymous #5 2h

Nah she does it for herself just as women have always said they do it for themselves not for men

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Anonymous #7 1h

Exactly. You just repeated what I said. Average usual make up for most women: none and daily skincare or just mascara and lip gloss. Usual date prep: nails: store: $10, pro: $50+, hair blowout (maybe): $35, skin treatments: store minimum: $15 pro: $75, outfit: $25+ (need at least one new item on because it feels special whether it’s dress/shirt/shoes/accessories/lingerie) Guys date prep: Clean clothes. Hair combed.

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Anonymous #7 1h

Then go have at it ig. Hope your hospital bills don’t blow that $35 you spent out of the water 🤢

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Anonymous #5 1h

All of that has no bearing on anything

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Anonymous #7 54m

If you want to go on a date it costs $ one way or the other. If you don’t want to go on a date, then you don’t have to spend the dollars. Also getting a date only buys you the 2 or so hours of conversation. Doesn’t get you any bedroom privileges, you earn that through your behavior on the date. If you don’t want the whole experience, then by all means see what you can get for the price of dinner online or in an alley. I wish you luck.

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Anonymous #5 51m

It goes both ways the woman is getting the privileges to speak to the man also so she should pay for the food she eats

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Anonymous #7 39m

Oh so you’re working to make sure the glass ceiling and glass elevator’s become history, because you so believe in equal rights, right? Naw you just want to put in no effort and eat all the cake. Good news, you can eat all the cake you want, on your own. If you want conversation with a woman either plan something that fits your budget or wait to be asked out yourself. Because I will say, the asker should also be the planner and payer. Dinner out is minimum planning with an expense.

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Anonymous #7 34m

If you can’t afford the minimum planning option then get creative and find free or low cost shit to do or don’t ask women out. It ain’t rocket science.

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Anonymous #5 5m

A woman looking for a hookup is not worth any additional effort as I’d have no intention of dating them they are for fun only that is all

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Anonymous #7 Just now

Then find someone that doesn’t want to put in any effort either 🤷‍♀️ you’re not up to op’s standards.

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