
I think like most things in life, a person’s behavior is oftentimes not just because of one singular moment. Chalking a complex disposition up to “lacking a father figure,” is a bit immature as most generalizations are, and it comes across as bigoted/butthurt. Which is why I assume you were so heavily downvoted.
Do you genuinely think someone who has lived their entire life without a father is walking around every single day for YEARSSS thinking about the fact that a random human they never met chose to not be in their life? I don’t really think that’s the case. Most fatherless women that I talk to have don’t do that. It is difficult to mourn what you never had. So to act with cruelty bcs of it makes no sense.