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how do i stop myself from dwelling on what people have said about me? there’s a girl i absolutely hate, and she’s just actually making my life harder. she comes in to my work on purpose, she hangs out with my old friends, she changed herself to look like
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Anonymous 21h

Want my advice change your life completely, change your job get new friends move if you have too those feelings will eat you alive if you let them

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Anonymous 1d

to look like me. she got a job closer to me. she’s actually just doing it on purpose at this point. i an very aware it’s a level of obsession on both parts. but i can not get her and the shit she’s said about me out of my head. idk what to do. advice would be nice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

i did change my life completely. i wish i could move but it’s way out of my reach right now with the way the current economy is going. i’ve had 3 different jobs since this started. i don’t post about them. i don’t talk about them. and some how she managed to get me fired from one and stalked me out of the other. and now she’s showing up at my new job posting pictures there every single day. i also did stop talking to those friends. i don’t have friends where i live right now, only online friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

i’m 100000% aware that it is and will eat me alive. because it already is. moving is on the agenda but it’s unattainable for the time being. i can’t continue to change jobs because it’s so unstable with pay between them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20h

i very much appreciate your input and response to me tho, hearing others perspectives helps even if it’s what i’ve been doing <3

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