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do you guys have random bursts of being annoyed in your relationship for no reason or am i crazy
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Anonymous 5w

i have a habit of getting too deep in my head with like anxiety & frustrations & worries but then once we’re together again (as in like just talking/hanging out/etc, not breaking up and getting back together) i’m fine? just bad anxiety and overthinking or something

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Anonymous 5w

yea its normal i think

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Anonymous 5w

Yes and sometimes it’s so random and I have to catch myself like hold on, there’s nothing wrong, you are annoyed because you want an argument. Like I have never known such peace in a relationship and having it for so long I feel on edge.

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Anonymous 5w

I think its normal to get annoyed every now and then thats natural when you spend so much time with one person but if youre annoyed long term then theres probably things not being communicated/needs not being met

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Anonymous 5w

uh no not really, maybe you should adress some of the root causes of that frustration

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Do you “break up” and get back together a lot?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

NO AHAHAHA NOT AT ALL we’ve never done that before, i was trying to clarify that 😭 so sorry, i know my wording is probably pretty jumbled?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Ohhhh. I’m glad to hear that. My boyfriend and I break up and get back together again it feels like once a month and recently every other week, it’s stupid af. And he’s always been the one doing it and being impulsive and emotional. It’s not even like we are really broken up, because he wakes up the next morning like everything’s fine. Any girls wanna talk abt their boyfriend being the “sensitive” one in the relationship?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

that’s awful, i’m so sorry that he keeps doing that to you. it’s incredibly immature. the fact that he acts like everything is fine in the morning (without addressing anything from the night before, i assume) is just infuriating.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

You should break up with someone like that for real

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Thank you 🫶🏻 it’s like our toxic coping mechanism to just not address anything bc it’s too painful and emotional and we just move on with our day and avoid it bc it seems he cannot have a calm and levelheaded convo without losing his shit. Like it’s traumatic to unpack things with him bc he doesn’t take any criticism or uncomfortable feelings well.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

Now my very recently officially ex is acting like we’re friends and talking to me even though I thought he ended it with me so I guess he doesn’t mind a situationship…🫩🥱

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