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I’m a good looking guy but girls that don’t look as good as me act like they’re too good for me, why is this?
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Anonymous 18h

I mean looks aren’t everything. Even if you actually are a decent looking person you just might not be what those specific women are looking for

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Anonymous 19h

Post a pic we shall see

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Anonymous 17h

Posting about how you think you’re good looking and the women who you see as beneath you says a lot about your personality. Explains a lot. I can only imagine the conversations that you’re having with these women…

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Anonymous 18h

A bunch of reasons. You can be good looking and still not be attractive to your target audience/ppl you’re also attracted to. Looks only really get you in the door so it could be personality, how you dress, your mannerism. Whatever it is that those specific women just aren’t attracted to about you

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Anonymous 19h

You probably aren't as good looking as you say, or your personality sucks

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Anonymous 19h

It’s probably a social thing. You say “act too good” but what does that mean? Also you can be social and outgoing and still not what these women want

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Anonymous 17h

i mean good looking is different for everyone. maybe you’re just not their type. tom holland is a conventionally good looking guy but he’s not my type. if he tried to hit on me i wouldn’t be interested. and im certainly not conventionally attractive myself. its not this hierarchy like you’re saying it is. everyone has different types and just because two people might seem conventionally attractive to you, doesnt mean they will find eachother attractive.

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Anonymous 15h

Maybe your attitude, most girls really want a gentleman, so no matter how good you look it’s really about how u act and treat others

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Anonymous 15h

Based on this post you don’t seem like a fun person to be around

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Anonymous 18h

I think you’re right, Thank you so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 19h

I’m very social and outgoing, I can send you pictures of what I look like, dm me your Snapchat

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 19h

When I talk to some of these girls they act like they can get any guy they want and that’s not true. Also I can send pictures of what I look like, maybe I’m bugging

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 18h

I hit up your dms I’ll literally show you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I’m not talking about your appearance at all. I could absolutely get most men to have sex with me. That’s not me being full of myself or looking down on you, it’s the reality of men my age being willing to have sex with pretty much anyone.

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 18h

I just want the girl to be cute not ugly, I feel like that’s not too much To ask. I see these girls with mid looking dudes but the same girl doesn’t want me, so I’m just confused. Girls choose who they want while guys take what they can get, that’s why it’s like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I’ve seen some absolutely gorgeous and stunning women with men who were not attractive. You are just talking about looks. Maybe he’s funny, or wants the same thing in life as she does, or he’s kind and good with animals- judging just off of appearance is ridiculous. My own mom looks significantly younger than she is and my dad looks his age. In most people they’d see that as my mom being more attractive than my dad. But that’s never ever affected them.

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Anonymous replying to -> and_i_oop 18h

Completely agree. Looks aren’t even top 10 of what I look for in a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 18h

In the long term yes this makes sense, but how deep of a connection can you form with someone in one night?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Who said anything about one night?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 18h

You’re right, I never mentioned that. But I see lesser-looking guys hook up with girls they just met and I don’t understand why the girl would choose them over me. Not trying to sound full of myself I just don’t understand.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Yeah you don’t just sound full of yourself, but you sound bitter that these women aren’t hooking up with you. I don’t mean any offense but that’s probably why you’re having problems. I was never talking about hookups. Those are totally different

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Side note but calling someone you feel is less attractive “lesser looking” is really weird.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17h

and the reason tom holland isn’t my type has nothing to do with my looks. i don’t not like him because i don’t think im attractive enough for him nor do i think im too good looking for him. i just don’t find him attractive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 16h

I talk to them like normal people

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 16h

Okay I definitely hear you, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Your being superficial, that’s a key reason for anyone to act like they’re too good for you if all you care about is looks

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