Ask Women on Yik Yak | I leave $50 on my dresser every time I hook up with a random girl as a test and 7 out of 12 times the girl has stolen it. Do women feel entitled to my money because of sex?

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I leave $50 on my dresser every time I hook up with a random girl as a test and 7 out of 12 times the girl has stolen it. Do women feel entitled to my money because of sex?

Anonymous 4w

genuinely why do you do that bro that’s 350 dollars 💔💔

Anonymous 4w

honestly some could think it’s for plan b but others are just messed up

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Anonymous 4w

I think it’s more that they think their never gonna see you again so miswell steel from ya too

Anonymous 4w

Pretty sure it has more to do with you making it super easy to steal from you so they stole from you than sex

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Anonymous 4w

i don’t think it’s that they feel entitled to your money because of sex. you’re just fucking some thieves tbh. i stole a starbucks gift card off a one night stands dresser one time bc he didn’t remember my name in the morning.

Anonymous 4w

Honestly why are you even doing that you look pathetic. They prob know it’s a test and know one wants to feel set up or that you already don’t trust them so may as well do it since you don’t trust them or like yourself enough it seems

Anonymous 4w

I think in general if you leave something in someone’s own place they live and they actually don’t know you, that’s when people would be most likely to “steal”. It’s like if someone dropped money and they were already around the block when you noticed. And some might think it’s a test to get them to message you again and just be like nah I’ll pocket it. I’ve heard of ppl purposefully leaving things behind for that reason

Anonymous 4w

Did you invite them over to sleep with you without meeting them more than once in person first?

Anonymous 4w

Honestly I’d probably not notice it for awhile and then not know where it came from by the time i did 💁🏻‍♀️ wouldn’t even know where to return it to

Anonymous 4w

im actually floored by the comments like.....genuinely what is going on.

Anonymous

bee_honeybee 4w

The thing is 5 out of 7 of them tried to get with me again too 💀

Anonymous

#2 4w

I think it’s a small price to pay because it keeps me grounded and reminds me what the relationship between us is really like

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Anonymous

OP 4w

Damn they bold

Anonymous

#5 4w

It’s MY place though, it’s MY apartment, I have random shit on my dresser all the time.

Anonymous

#4 4w

I don’t think they know it’s a test, my dresser has like 40 different random things on it

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Anonymous

OP 4w

It would still feel like a purposeful setup to see a dresser of trinkets and then just some random $50 unattended. Like put it in your wallet

Anonymous

#4 4w

I think some ppl just know, and don’t care bc you do it to yourself and just stop contacting you

Anonymous

#10 4w

i dont care one bit if he shouldnt have "left it out" so he was "easy to steal from" or if i thought he was "testing me" what happened to common decency????? literally just being a decent person w morals? im so shocked by these comments & each subsequent one defending literal theft just made my faith in humanity drop lower & lower when normally i have pretty high hopes for us. this is insane😭

Anonymous

#10 4w

Or he set himself up trying to make women look like gold diggers. He needs to have faith in women than simply sleeping with thieves 😭

Anonymous

#4 4w

yes i agree he shouldnt be doing it & its not going to be good for him or his mindset in the long run but at the same time even ifff i thought i was being "tested" by a guy leaving his money laying around like that i still wouldnt steal it?? thats the part im stuck on like ofc hes being dumb but the amount of ppl defending why taking the money is okay & coming up w excuses is whats concerning to me😕

Anonymous

#10 4w

More like it’s his fault if he did he can’t say do they feel entitled to his money bc of sex if he’s doing it on purpose. That’s like someone giving you a gift and being expecting to get it back if something happened. He’s just stupid and trying to feel victimized. I wouldn’t steal it either but it doesn’t mean he needs to feel sorry if they did bc he’s doing it intentionally

Anonymous

#4 4w

i see what ur saying. i think we're just looking at it from two diff angles. thanks for discussing it w me in a civil manner!🫶 that doesnt happen enough these days

Anonymous

#3 4w

No exactly, if it was like $80 I’d think it’s a mistake but $50 is the exact price for plan b I’d assume he left it for that

Anonymous

#10 4w

All good I just think of it from a scammer aspect I guess bc I’d feel offended if someone was trying to purposefully test me when all it was is a hookup anyway 🫡