Me one year ago! My advice: - stay off dating apps and don’t talk to men if you can help it. You need time to decenter them. - focus on your hobbies and what you like to do working out, reading, watching TV, art, adventure outdoors. Try and find solo hobbies that don’t rely on other people. - don’t let the quiet make you desperate to reach out for love and attention. Get comfortable with it.

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- go do things that put you an environment to make deep meaningful connections with other girls. School events, Bible studies, anything

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I spent all of last summer by myself working from home and it was the hardest thing I’ve ever done but the most transformative. I healed so much from all of the trauma that I went through in my relationship. I also found parts of myself that needed improving. Don’t reach out to him. For yourself instead, girl you’ve got it!

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I’m so sorry that’s never easy ❤️

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Reconnect with your family. Talk to your close cousins, learn that you need to have something else than a boyfriend bc this can ALWAYS happen

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Don’t feel bad ,you are young,this is a learning experience

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I’m in the same boat. Tg for 2 years n after we broke up he got w the girl that I found out after the breakup he was cheating on me with. Overly pissed, overly sad, overly everything.

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Honestly pick up a new hobby, change your hair or your glasses or something about yourself if you’ve been thinking of it for a while. Not in a mental breakdown way but in a change and experimentation is fun and freeing way. I got out of a long term relationship and got 2 tattoos I had been wanting for years and felt like a brand new person. I started dressing up more and going to new places by myself just to have new experiences and I met a lot of really cool people. Just do things for yourself!

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Same boat here!! Im an introvert and we were together for 5 years, i moved to his state and never made any friends and now im all alone 😭💔

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relationship girl here, currently single and have found female friendships to be worlds more gratifying than any male attention i promise there are so many people waiting to meet you and love you

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LMAOOOOO PROBABLY DESERVED

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