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I’m a guy who is in college and has never even held a girls hand. Am I cooked and how do I get the confidence to make a move. I usually just end up as friends with girls I like and then am sad when the friendship moves on and I never did anything 😭😭
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Anonymous 3w

Ok so basically just shoot your shot in a non creepy way, or download a dating app and try talking to girls on there to build confidence. Trust you can do it and obviously you have a friendly quality to yourself so try and build off with friendship, just don’t be creepy and don’t try to move to fast follow the pace the girl sets and be cautious of body language and how they react to you and you can do it!!!

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah, we’re all cooked

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Anonymous 3w

Lol had a friend like this. Two actually. Another friend and I worked very hard to get them together. They’ve been dating about a year now. So all you need are two overly invested female friends to get her on board.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Your telling me I need friends too. Ts is so complicated 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Okay really just one. We were the buffer to convince her that he liked her too. Honestly was the push she needed to feel comfortable. We also then told him he had the green light. I have a feeling you want someone to tell you that too?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Kinda. I just don’t really know what I’m doing and I’m good at making friends on a surface level. So I’m not used to many signals or anything or even how to approach a situation on a deeper level

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I feel this in my core. I find it so hard to tell if someone is interested in me or if they want to be friends. Do you have anyone in mind that you are interested in?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Don’t try dating apps. Trust me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

@op

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Yes but I don’t really see her anymore. We had a class together and got pretty close but stopped seeing each other once the class was over

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ahhh okay. Do you have new classes starting soon?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I got one tonight

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Hopefully you can find someone through there. I wish you good luck

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Thank you🤞

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