Anonymous #1 5w

with seeing them once a week?

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Anonymous #3 5w

That’s what im thinking, 1-2 a week is not a lot that’s like avg to bare minimum, 3-5 is a lot.

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Anonymous OP 5w

I can’t say how they feel about you but it sounds like one of you has other priorities than the relationship. It’s up to you to decide if what they are make sense or can be worked around.

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Anonymous #3 5w

Im not dating this person personally because that just sounds odd, this same person would hang out with friends male and female friends 3-4 times a week or at least me for sure so idk how tf 1-2 a week seems like a lot. If my person wanted to see me once a week i just wouldn’t be with them.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Ah so is it about someone else then? Either way yeah that’s pretty sus. It could be that they’re holding the person at a distance until they get to know them more? But that’s still not a great foundation for a serious relationship.

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Anonymous #3 5w

I think it goes to say that if you’re seeing a partner 1-2 a week it questions just how good that connection really is, especially in modern dating with most people just sticking to dates and not really just vibing. 1-2 a week in the same city or apt complex isnt a lot, i dont get the logic.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yeah maybe they’re not that into each other? With my ex 1-2x a week was enough but with my surrender s/o we went from that to 3-5 times a week within the first month or two so definitely a different vibe. But hey if it works for them it works for them. If it doesn’t you can share your thoughts but ultimately you gotta let them come to terms with that.

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Anonymous #3 5w

Yea true, but if you not feelin it like that just break up atp, you don’t even really like eachother its basically just convience 😂

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Anonymous OP 5w

I mean I get but it some people are just tired and want someone around to have someone around. If that’s where they’re at that’s where they’re at and it’s what they’re gonna do until they’re over it.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yea ion see an issue with that?

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Anonymous #1 5w

alright

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