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My gf just told me that she had a fwb in the past who treated her shitty but she still hooked up with him. She says she regrets him, but I feel icked about how she handled it😞. This was a year before me and her met… thoughts?
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Anonymous 5d

The things a baddie will do for good dick 😫 Is she still seeing this man? No, she upgraded. I don’t really understand the question tbh how did she handle it?

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Anonymous 5d

She probably grew from the experience. Everyone has had shitty things happen in life and sometimes it takes a while to learn from them. That doesn’t mean you should be “icked” because you’ve probably done the same thing. Held on to something for too long.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Like she kept hooking up tho he was shitty, made me question her morals and self respect a little

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 5d

I would disagree in the sense that I would not be around anyone who disrespected me in the slightest

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

That’s great that you would never put up with it. Most people have. I certainly put up with people who treated me like shit. Have you even asked her about the circumstances?

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 5d

I did and she just had a lack of self respect then

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Said that she*

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

so your girlfriends self respect used to be low and you resent her for it? I’m sorry I’m kind of lost. Shouldn’t you be happy she’s gotten better?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

So you’re upset that at one point her self respect was low??

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

No I’m obviously very happy that she’s gotten better. I am just upset about the fact that she willingly associated herself with shitty ppl. And I can’t stop thinking about if she genuinely likes me or if she is with me cuz still thinks with the same mindset she has had back then. Although she has assured me that’s not the case

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

One of my biggest fears getting into a relationship has been is whether or not the person is in a relationship with me cuz I am their backup option and the guy they wanted didn’t want to commit

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