
Attend protests. Call senators. Volunteer for the people he has most affected, whether it be at a food bank that services impoverished communities, groups that are working to protect immigrants, groups that advocate or help queer people etc. actively speak out against Trump (to people who support him not just venting with other like minded friends) and also just being able to clearly show an understanding of the impact their vote has had
Actively participate in efforts that work against MAGA and understand that people will be resentful towards you for a while. It’s good to look back and understand your mistakes but you did vote for someone who has been very clear for a long time about how harmful he is and it’s reasonable for people to not look past that
Theres no quick or easy way to earn people’s trust. Best thing to do after expressing your change and remorse is continue bettering yourself, independent of their trust, forgiveness, or approval. If you’re the same guy from yesterday, your problems may not be exclusive to the trust (or lack thereof) that your GF’s friends have for you. For people to cut out their own friends over that… idk it seems like something more personal than politics is going on.
And most of all stop being resentful when people can’t immediately forgive you for endangering their friends, family, or themselves. I owe my friends way more than the bf of a friend. And you have done visible harm to them. I welcome anyone who has changed their political view, but I can’t immediately forgive someone who has willingly done so much harm to people I love