Anonymous #2 1w

facts i’ve seen many people post they’ve never been in a relationship their entire lives

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Anonymous #4 1w

like being yourself just isn’t enough if you’re not outwardly attractive or actively approaching the people who make very clear that they don’t want to be approached :/

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Anonymous #2 1w

exactly. like looks aren’t everything but they are a lot

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Anonymous #4 6d

You likely go for ppl above what your conventional attractiveness is a lot of us prefer originality

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Anonymous #1 6d

well the issue is that you have to pick a person to go for in the beginning. most people choose that based on outward appearance since it’s really the only thing you can see without getting to sit down and take the time to truly know the person. attractiveness usually isn’t the main thing to get someone into relationships, but it’s the thing to get them considered in the first place, yk?

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Anonymous #2 6d

Not always. Looks can only go so far and if you think you have to be the most insanely attractive person in the world in order to date that’s your problem. It’s not organic like OP said and only materialistic

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Anonymous #1 6d

But that’s hard to grasp for a lot of men that still only think looks in mind with attracting women regardless of how many times we clearly need to post abt this

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Anonymous #1 6d

that’s just not what i’m saying,, we agree that looks aren’t the thing to actually get a date; it’s personality. but in order for someone to want to get to know you, they have to decide that they want to get to know you. and generally, they make that decision through a split second decision heavily influenced by outward appearance. all i’m saying is that simply being yourself isn’t necessarily always enough to guarantee the right people falling for you.

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Anonymous #2 6d

Being yourself has nothing to do with your looks but being your authentic self. If you think looks correlate to your own personality that’s on you and you clearly missed the point of the post

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Anonymous #1 6d

Every time we say “looks aren’t that important” here comes a guy saying “actually it is”. Its impossible

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Anonymous #2 6d

i don’t appreciate you deleting your comments, but i’ll still respond to what you said. of course being yourself has nothing to do with your looks, but it does have something to do with attracting other people which IS the point of the original post. yeah, it’s shallow but that’s just how the biological wiring works in more or less every single animal ever. it’s not the most important thing, but it’s what people see at first and first impressions are important.

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Anonymous #1 6d

look are important but they are not everything. you’re not going to approach someone you don’t think looks good are you?

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Anonymous #1 6d

so approaching someone you find attractive isn’t original? what is it then. looks determine if you’ll get their interest and from that point on your personality is the deciding factor

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Anonymous #4 6d

Still not the point

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Anonymous #1 6d

You’d rather be fake to get a woman to like you than be yourself? Bc why all of a sudden it’s all about looks. I’ve dated men that aren’t the most attractive to anyone else and it’s been fine when they approached me bc they did it respectfully and I enjoyed the conversation. So you can’t say looks are the deciding factor to if you’ll get interest or not by every girl

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Anonymous #1 6d

no one said anything about being fake, and don’t say all of a sudden it’s about looks it’s always been about looks. if something looks cooler or whatever you’re more inclined to pick that thing if you don’t know much about it. now as for my statement looks are NOT everything, as proven by you bc you said you’ve dated men that aren’t the most attractive to anyone. HOWEVER, they are important. did you find those men attractive or did you just date them bc why the fuck not?

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Anonymous #4 6d

wait they didn’t delete their comments they just blocked me LMAOO

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Anonymous #2 6d

😭😭😭 they got butthurt

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Anonymous #4 5d

They’re attractive to me which is what mattered. But it’s not always about looks at least to the extent men make it out to be

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