ngl if you have to get a loyalty test to make sure your bf isn’t cheating on you, i feel like the relationship is doomed to fail (sorry if this comes harsh), and you should 100% leave. healthy lasting relationships are inherently build on communication and trust — 1.) especially in a long distance relationship, it’s valid to be concerned abt him texting multiple girls and him getting defensive if you ask is 🚩
2.) if you have to get a loyalty test to ensure he isn’t cheating beyond asking him, then this is honestly indicative that you don’t trust him — this isn’t bad and honestly valid. lack of a trust is a response to how yall have been navigating the respect, how he has been treating and acting toward you. if he has been respecting you and treating you right, you wouldn’t have to question his loyalty in the first place…. honestly trust ur gut 💯