Continued: I’ve read so many posts online that people who haven’t dated much “don’t know how to be a boyfriend”. I didn’t even see that as an issue. I wasn’t her first bf but she WAS my first gf. I literally didn’t see why tf that matters, it wasn’t hard to be a good partner and I hadn’t done it before. We broke up because she wants to get married right out of school and I want a good job first, that was the only incompatibility.
I feel like you can learn a lot about what you like/don’t like, what you need in a relationship, what your boundaries are, and even certain patterns or behaviors you have in a relationship( like attachment styles, how you show love , and how you like to receive it). There’s probably so much mroe
I also think that thing is kinda bs bc my first relationship I was also a good partner, and it’s not hard. But there are definitely things you learn just like as in any life experiences. In that case, it could be that you learned to talk about a future with someone, such as timing of marriage and what you want before that.