Ask Women on Yik Yak | I’m feeling kind of behind rn because I’m the only friend in my friend group left who is still a virgin and I’m almost 22… the thought of the first time scares me too… and, my friend who was also a virgin just lost her virginity last night. Any advice?? 😭

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I’m feeling kind of behind rn because I’m the only friend in my friend group left who is still a virgin and I’m almost 22… the thought of the first time scares me too… and, my friend who was also a virgin just lost her virginity last night. Any advice?? 😭

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Anonymous 15h

Virginity is a social construct. It’s something meant to create insecurity in people

Anonymous 15h

I know it's much easier said than done but it really does not matter in the grand scheme of things so you just can't let it bother you

Anonymous 13h

honestly, i felt the same way until there was one day I was making out with my girlfriend and was like “yk what I get it now” and now we’re working up to sex (we’re taking the relationship slow for a few reasons) but like I feel comfortable with her enough to do it

Anonymous 11h

me too sister 💔💔 i’m so lonely it hurts

Anonymous 6h

Well I’m a guy but I am several years older than you and still a virgin. I want my first time to be special.

Anonymous 14h

Let me help you with that situation.

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Anonymous

#2 14h

I know, I just feel behind and am lowkey scared for the first time too… I also suck at talking to guys lol

Anonymous

#3 13h

No 😀

Anonymous

#5 11h

It almost makes me feel physically ill

Anonymous

OP 11h

legit i feel so left out of everything