Anonymous #1 3w

i guess not, like i don't actively seek out relationships im more on the shy side and i find it kind of difficult to open up and be myself if i'm not comfortable, i'd be too scared to approach a guy tbh

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Anonymous #2 3w

zero 😭

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Anonymous OP 3w

I recommend working on your social anxiety, its possible for a guy to ask you out but a lot of guys are attracted to people who are social and easy to talk to so whether or not you start asking people out it will at least help your odds

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Anonymous OP 3w

I’ve dated and it’s only come to me when I’ve actually been seeking it out, I’ve been single for years now bc I’ve stopped seeking it out

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Anonymous #3 3w

How does one seem out a relationship tho? Like what do you do

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Anonymous #3 3w

Esp if you’re spending most of your time in your room and spaces that aren’t super social come up to random people for a relationship type things

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Anonymous #2 3w

That makes sense

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Anonymous #3 3w

True true i mean i work and do school but that's about it

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Anonymous OP 3w

Apps or really putting yourself out there in social spaces. Sometimes luck but you can’t count on that. I’ve met one from a friend and one on an app. I don’t even think you can really count on bars or clubs for a relationship anymore as much as weird people coming up to you wanting to hookup

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Anonymous #3 3w

How do you put yourself out there tho like go up to randos and strike up conversation like not good at conversation 💔

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Anonymous OP 3w

Tbh, I think that’s how u do it 😭. Just wanted to let u, I‘m a guy and I can relate 100%

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Anonymous #2 3w

Yeah. I think it‘s true of both genders. I don‘t like it, but we‘re social creatures and thus have to act like it

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