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Am i being ridiculous when i ask my girlfriend if she has anything to wear under her halloween costume when you can see the outline/shape of her nipples against the fabric of the costume?
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Anonymous 5d

I think it’s fine to calmly and respectfully ask her to wear something under it and explain why you would appreciate that, but you have to be prepared for her to say “no” and accept that as a valid answer

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Anonymous 5d

If it bothers you, it’s worth talking about. Nipples are halfway between normal skin and genitals imo, regardless of the gender. I feel it’s a valid complaint, maybe just nipple covers/patches is a compromise. Especially if you buy them for her or give her the money for them, but be prepared for a “no.”

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Anonymous 5d

Its a tube top she is wearing i just dont want people to see her like that but am i being ridiculous?

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Anonymous 5d

Its very thin and the material is cheap thats why you can see them

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Anonymous 5d

I mean if she doesn’t care about being seen like that I guess you shouldn’t either. You can point it out but if she shrugs it off that means she comfortable with it. It’s her body and what she wears is an indication of what she wants people to see. Now if the clothes are making you uncomfortable you’ll have to figure out why and if you should care more than she does.

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Anonymous 5d

how did she react when you told her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

However there’s a chance she may not have realized in which case bringing it up may not hurt. You just have to do it in a way that leaves the final choice up to her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Thank you for the response

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Thank you for the advice

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I think you should date someone with similar values as yourself

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