
There are many normal guys. But too many of the “normal” guys let off their creep of a buddy because “he’s not that bad” or “that’s just how he is” but the point was that it shouldn’t have been a story. “Hey can I talk to you?” “No thank you.” “Well alright then.” The end. Very normal and easily forgotten interaction that wouldn’t have been anyone’s internet story.
After I couldn’t get away with claiming jailbait for unwanted attention (the amount of men who looked more than mildly into it if they thought I wouldn’t turn them in was disturbing.) I started wearing rings and I always have a ring on my left ring finger, I have more than that so its just part of my style (and useful if I actually needed to defend myself) but if someone doesn’t want to go away its a safe no.