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Ask Women 12h
Need advice-don’t come at me with that he’s a lost cause bs either, I’ve been seeing a guy for a few months and we both really like eachother but he has deep past wounds and idk how to make him feel more safe or to help him see he can trust to let me in?!
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Anonymous 12h

i think you just need to give him time to work on himself, those past wounds need time to properly heal. in terms of making him feel safe, do your best to get in his head that youre there for him

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Anonymous 11h

depends on what those wounds are and how they're affecting the relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

*get it in his head that youre there for him

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

He’s scared to let someone in/ open up

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

how is that manifesting?

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