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I genuinely don’t understand smth I had a rumor spread around my college that I’m a slut, and it’s so painful like does anyone have advice on how I can fix this
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Anonymous 8w

try not to care what people say about you especially if you know it’s not true. surround yourself with close friends who support you and understand the situation. i’m really sorry that’s happening. in college it might be easier to find people who haven’t heard it tho? from my experience it’s harder to spread rumors in college but ig it would depend on the school

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Anonymous 8w

easier said than done but genuinely do try not to care about it. there’s worse things to be than a slut, and nobody who actually is worth getting to know would just believe that off rip without learning who you are first

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Anonymous 8w

1 is blocked for me so that’s not a good sign

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Anonymous 8w

I think it’s just important to remember that slut shaming is for losers and how many bodies a person may or may not have isn’t actually important

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

good news is tho rumor generally dissipate fast and people will forget or jsut not care

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Anonymous 8w

why do it matter

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Anonymous 8w

old enough to know better 💀

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Anonymous 8w

NO!!!!! why was my comment the catalyst for you to even ask me this 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 8w

nobody in this whole forum is gonna date your desperate ass, i’ll save you the time- STOP DOING THIS

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Anonymous 8w

i’ve been in a relationship with an incredible man for over a year now, WHY would i want to give a random man i don’t know my number

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Anonymous 8w

i am in a relationship, so neither for you. also not married but i’d like to marry my boyfriend eventually. we’re old enough to have a good time

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Anonymous 8w

it really reads as desperate. also no thank you

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Anonymous 8w

bro who do you think you are 😭😭😭 24 years old asking to “talk” to a girl’s long term healthy relationship like you’re going to convince him to hand me over to you or something

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Anonymous 8w

i’ll tell you right now, he didn’t shoot his shot with every girl he came across. he’s respectful, considerate, and genuinely just wants to make me happy. we have so many overlapping interests that it was just natural that we ended up together after going on our first date. your strategy of casting your net extremely wide is just gonna get you 100 gar

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Anonymous 8w

i will later when he wakes up and he’s gonna have a laugh

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Anonymous 8w

respectfully, no. stranger danger. it’s an anonymous app for a reason

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Anonymous 8w

don’t be dumb, it’s anonymous in the way that you don’t know who i am and i don’t know who you are, and we will be keeping it that way. my boyfriend has more important things to do and also definitely does not give enough of a fuck to take time out of his day to give girl advice to a guy who’s been asking every single girl if they’d be interested

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Anonymous 8w

he’s an industrial designer… and no i do not think you would

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Thank you😔 it’s just that’s what hurt the most, it was done to make people see me as nothing but that, my body count is low but I just want to be known for who I am and not just a body I want to be loved but the rumor practically garuntes people know me as just sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

1 is blocked for me what did they say?😱

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