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i wanna talk to this girl after class. any thoughts on how to approach her?
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Anonymous 2w

Try to meet eyes with her and smile, if she smiles back in a warm, not forced way, take that as a sign to say hi

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Anonymous 2w

Same there’s a girl in my class and she complimented me today, and she has before, but idk how to continue cause I just freeze up.

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Anonymous 2w

Ima dude, but I’d say hey I love your X (something she made a choice to wear like glasses, shirt, etc.) my name is X nice to meet you

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Anonymous 2w

Later on, try to sit next to her during class so talking will come more naturally ;)

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Anonymous 2w

Literally having this same issue at a work conference. Maybe I just don’t look approachable but I’m trying to not come off as a creep either lol

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Anonymous 2w

There’s a couple different things! You can ask if she wants to study outside of class, you could asks her what she thought of the lecture that way or try and work with her on group work. (One of these do not do all)

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Anonymous 2w

Or even wave if speaking is too much

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Anonymous 2w

This is my dream

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Anonymous 2w

literally just full on confidence even if she doesn't find you attractive she'd think that you're cool

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

that would be hard cause she sits behind me but i’ll see what i can do. thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Ofc! Best of luck to you :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

What does she say? You can compliment her back! Or say thank you and ask for her name or something else like that!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

And see how she responds, if she’s engaging keep going

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

as a girl, 100% this. Compliment something she had control over and be friendly

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