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Why do people make you feel bad for liking older men?
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Anonymous 17w

Because to an older person they see you as young and naive and you put yourself in a position to be exploited

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Anonymous 17w

Jealousy

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Anonymous 17w

Bc it’s generally not a good choice

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Anonymous 17w

I’m not going to be rude about it but as a 23 yr old I was like that when I was younger and old men who specifically seek out or seem to be only with barely legal women are creeps and older men absolutely does not mean more mature or better partners bc of their age. While it can be fine, it is often predatory. I thought I was grown when I was younger and now I realize that younger me was not at all fully developed in the brain and I still have more growing to do. If I could talk to younger me id

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Anonymous 16w

It gives home wrecker vibes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

Ummm, what if that’s what we want rather than an immature dweeb our age?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Yaass girl get exploited 😛

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

I’ll love every minute of it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17w

Tell her this.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

being with an older guy doesn’t always mean you’re being exploited.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 17w

Also idk just in my experience oddly usually the girls who go with older men bc they “want someone more mature and on their level” ironically are the most immature women I know. I also don’t like it bc it normalizes the attitude that men are age are just immature, and all of them are like that. Ive met plenty of mature men our age. We need to hold the rest to a higher standard, not normalize their immaturity

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

People generally like to tare others down popular opinion and social pressure is almost never helpful. • Body positivity for obesity • Celebrate non-reproductive behavior • Admonish people who save/are careful with money • Hate anyone who prioritizes financial success over "following passion" • Call people who have kids selfish

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