Hey guy. I see a lot of this sentiment from male peers often. You gotta sort your own stuff out. I mean get more hobbies make more friends enjoy life. You gotta Rmeber that marriage was the main goal generation prior and we live in a vast wonderful world where folks get married even as late as in their 50’s+. There is no rush. And legitimately your partner will show up unexpectedly and after you’ve let the relationships stress go. I’ve been given this advice and it’s pretty accurate