Ask Women on Yik Yak | I got major surgery & my long time friend never checked up on me once yet hit me up everyday to vent about herself knowing I was in recovery. I was off work for months too. I even told her my recovery was hard on me & she didn’t acknowledge it. 1/2

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I got major surgery & my long time friend never checked up on me once yet hit me up everyday to vent about herself knowing I was in recovery. I was off work for months too. I even told her my recovery was hard on me & she didn’t acknowledge it. 1/2

Anonymous 16w

this has been a pattern of behaviour for years which I’ve brought to her attention. we decided to fix things & after over a decade of friendship she’s FINALLY showing more interest me in but it sucks that I had to threaten to end our friendship to get to this point. Would you cut someone off for this or continue to work on it?

Anonymous 16w

Same. Literally, my “best friends” all ghosted when I left school got medical leave! I spent 2 weeks in the NEUROSURGERY ICU and not one text from my friends 😔🫠

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OP 16w

personally would put her on the back burner she has changed so no need to cut her off but dont put her as a priority or as a close friend if she does not do the same for u and decide what to do after that. if she does make a significant change then she back in close friends term if not i would consider cutting her off or distancing