
(Man chiming in here) This is going to sound like such a humble brag, and it’s really not supposed to be. I promise. I never understood the difficulty. It seems like it would be more of a game time/under pressure adrenaline thing. That makes more sense to me. But unhooking or unclamping a bra itself isn’t necessarily a hard thing to do.
I’m the person you’re talking to and my bf is far from privileged. If anything I feel like I’m more privileged than he is bc I have a workaholic dad (bless his heart). But it’s like unclamping anything else. I mean I’m his first girly girl gf so he was confused on how strapless clothes were taken off but he’s learning