Ask Women on Yik Yak | Do women ignore my compliments for a reason? Especially on dating apps, I'll flirt/give compliments and they act like I never said it in the first placd

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Ask Women 14w

Do women ignore my compliments for a reason? Especially on dating apps, I'll flirt/give compliments and they act like I never said it in the first placd

Anonymous 14w

I ignore them usually, maybe a thanks here and there. For me im whatever about it bc guys just say it to any girl. Its not special or only to me.

Anonymous 14w

I just see it as a way to win me over and don’t take them seriously.

Anonymous 14w

Not the only reason but lots of people in general have trouble taking and responding to a compliment and kind of just brush it off awkwardly

Anonymous

#1 14w

If we’ve grown a bond together and then you start the compliments- yeah ill blush

Anonymous

#1 14w

I never start with them, only usually after a day

Anonymous

OP 14w

Thats still really fast for me tbh

Anonymous

#1 14w

Really? Even if it doesn't change the tone of the convo?

Anonymous

OP 14w

I just find it lowkey annoying. Like you barely know me and it looks pretty desperate. Or if its a comment about my looks, ik you compliment every girl so its not special. Thats just me though! Im a stickler

Anonymous

#2 14w

Esp when it’s about looka

Anonymous

OP 14w

Tell me what kinda compliments you say

Anonymous

#2 14w

Looks

Anonymous

#1 14w

Why tho? Superficial compliments are superficial because they're about superficial things that don't change when/if I were to date you. Usually I'd say they're prettier/cuter than something they like in a creative way.

Anonymous

OP 14w

Thats just me! Not impressed by them

Anonymous

#1 14w

Gotcha. Don't flirt