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How do you get over that gut wrenching feeling of having a crush but knowing he would never find you attractive? I just wanna not be ugly anymore 😢
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Anonymous 3w

There is no silver bullet, but here is an arrow for your quiver... Remember that we all get uglier as we age. Him, whoever he ends up with, you, me... all saggy browner often grumpier more in pain versions of ourselves. Attractiveness, while truly being a great temporary thing, is as good as a tasty ice cream. It's temporary, and honestly unhelpful in the long term of finding a good life partner.

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Anonymous 3w

I wouldn’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Your feelings are about how you feel now and what your reality for the next 5 years looks like though. And in that sense... you're right. Think longer term and a lot of things will get better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

You have clearly never had a very tasty ice cream.

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