Anonymous #1 5d

Bro I wanna hear your story

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Anonymous #3 5d

Excuses

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5d

“He’s a better match” is actually a fantastic excuse. There are some things I don’t like very much but would still be willing to do if it meant I could get to know a really good guy better. Just means op didn’t offer enough to make her wanna do that 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 5d

Then she should’ve been honest about not being into him instead of lying and saying she doesn’t like the movies

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Anonymous #4 5d

Bruh, I took her out on date, went on walks, and even bought her gifts for christmas. If I asked to go to the movies or roller blading, I am making an effort. It all comes down to looks. ALWAYS

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Anonymous OP 5d

Brutal, bro

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5d

Bruh can you read. She probably didn’t lie about that🫠 this other guy just made going to the movies worth it for her

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Anonymous OP 5d

I’m sorry that happened but that is simply not true. You probably just weren’t a match, whether that’s looks wise or personality wise or beliefs wise. It does not always come down to looks

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Anonymous #4 5d

Then how comes im in my 20s and never had a girlfriend?

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Anonymous OP 5d

Bc you didn’t match with the women you pursued. Which again could be because of a multitude of reasons. I don’t know you, maybe you are a shitty partner 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #4 5d

I’m not. I know this is gonna sound cliché, but I’ve treated woman with respect and i’ve always been nice to them. But I’m super ugly and it cancels it all out for them. Only reason.

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Anonymous OP 5d

Again there’s a multitude of reasons. Maybe you weren’t aligned politically or religiously. Maybe your life goals weren’t aligned. Maybe you just didn’t match with them personality wise. Maybe she’s a night person and you are a morning person. Why assume it’s always your looks? Youre just making yourself insecure through these baseless assumptions

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Anonymous #4 5d

Because most people have said that I am ugly. Both guys and girls.

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Anonymous OP 5d

Then compensate in other ways

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Anonymous #4 5d

What is complaining on the internet going to do

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Anonymous #4 5d

I’m just tired of being ghosted and friendzoned by every girl that I meet.

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Anonymous #4 5d

Like I’ve been trying for over 6 years now and it’s always the same thing.

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Anonymous OP 5d

have you tried dating an ugly girl

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5d

Yeah she wasn’t my type though

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Anonymous OP 5d

yeah well you aren’t the pretty girls types though

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Anonymous twirling_tornado 5d

How do I switch that?

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Anonymous OP 5d

you either 1) stay in your lane and stop bothering pretty girls. ur less attractive so date less attractive girls. if ur ugly and don’t want to date ugly girls then why’d you think pretty girls want to date you? hypocrisy or 2) figure out ways to be more attractive. invest in a good hairstyle / facial hairstyle that complements your face shape, get ur teeth fixed, have healthy habits like good posture and not mouth breathing, whatever im sure u can find plenty of internet looksmaxxing advice

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5d

“Basedgigatruecel” aka: lonely boychild that thinks being controversial, abrasive, and egotistic should attract women

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Anonymous #4 5d

Fr men think that theyre all starting on an even playing field but in reality the “playing field” is just human interaction that theyre either sucking at or being decent at and that sways how much a woman is willing to compromise for him

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Anonymous basedgigatruecel 5d

Maybe she DOESNT like the movies but liked how the other guy treater her enough to compromise that and actually go to the movies? I dont like licorice but it doesnt mean im not willing to take a nibble or two for the right reasons

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Anonymous #7 5d

Your daddy teach you that one?

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Anonymous OP 4d

after reading this entire thread ive just come to the conclusion the main issue here is u men r just not accustomed to feeling insecurity?😭😭 like girls non stop deal w the “he picked the prettier girl” thing too…thats like a universal experience for anyone i would say??? but ig us women dont make chronically online terms up abt it like blackpill. I think yall need to like..open up w friends or something cuz damn😭 have some emotional depth in ur friendships bc it goes a long way in terms of-

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Anonymous #8 4d

support about insecurity.

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Anonymous OP 3d

I had my first (and only) bf at 21 even tho people frequently state that they mind me attractive. Many of them have been quite attractive to me. But was looking for someone that I was really going to match well with. Didn’t find that until 21. It’s not always about attraction…

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