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What makes u like a guy? Does he just have to be kind & decently attractive?
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Anonymous 4w

Being smart! Could just be because I like nerds, but there’s something about a guy that knows what he’s talking about 😌

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Anonymous 4w

Yes but he also needs good values and treats everyone with respect. I don’t need to find out he’s getting into arguments or cussing out his co workers or his management or something bc he can’t control his emotions or criticism

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Anonymous 4w

a guy held a door open for me longer than i thought he would, so i turned around to say thank you and he smiled at me. long story short it's been 4 years now and every time i try to touch a door handle im in trouble.

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Anonymous 4w

Don’t be skinny and hit the gym. Simple

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Ig I’m more talking initial attraction. Like what makes i think u might want to date this guy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

*u

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Same thing, really how he treats me and other ppl. I like men with good character

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Lets say I hold the door for u and a group of other ppl and I’m a decently attractive guy. That could make u interested?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I mean sure initially but idk how your personality is just that you’re a nice person. Foot in the door but not enough to hook me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Ofc. Yeah, that’s all I’m trying to figure out is how to get the foot in the door lol. Ik attraction is big part of it, but I was just wondering how big. Like I said, I’m decently attractive, anywhere from a 5 to 7/10 (probably varies based on my hairstyle, if I have facial hair & how I have it etc.)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I would guess I’m probably closer to avg on most days, so 5-6

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

To clarify, I wouldn’t hold the door just yo make someone like me lol. I do it anyway. I ask cuz I’ve had a girl seem rlly happy when I did it before

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

In addition to kindness & being decent looking, right?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Definitely 😌 The decent looking part just depends on their standards I suppose

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I think most ppl want someone who at least looks decent. Like at least a 5/10, to put a number to it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

then absolutely yeah! cause being kind or sweet can push that up to like 7-8

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

And if ur a 6, could it make u an 8-9/10? 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

LOLL TOTALLY! Throw in being a gentleman, a lil bit of humor, and you’re cooling 😼

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

So then Ig I just need to put myself put there 🤷‍♂️. Not seem like I’m antisocial 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Nahh trust me I know what you mean man 😌 Go for it!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

it's the little things. show that chivalry isn't dead, be yourself, i liked my man because he got nervous sometimes in the beginning, it was so much better than him pretended he didn't care or that he was 'nonchalant' whatever that means

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