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Am I the only one who hates when men give me compliments on my physical appearance? Like calling me beautiful.. it just makes me feel sexualized or objectified.
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Anonymous 5w

I definitely like compliments on my appearance but if it’s my SO then I want more significant comments yknow?

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Anonymous 5w

I only like appearance comments when they’re about my outfit or makeup or something I actually did/made

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Anonymous 5w

I think it depends on the compliment and how many times they say it. Compliments about my body in itself grosses me out. General compliments like calling me pretty or beautiful is fine. Unless he’s constantly saying it every chance he gets then I just feel like he’s harassing me with compliments and it weirds me out

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5w

This is why you’ll end up married in a healthy relationship, wish I could say the same for op

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

There’s no need to be an asshole.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Nah I can totally relate to you OP, I feel sexualized when subway workers ask me what I want on my sandwich

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

I don’t appreciate your sarcasm or using my pain as a joke just cause you don’t understand it.

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