ive gotchu. when shaving, exfoliate first. get a scrub of some kind, NOT TREE HUT IT IS SUGAR BASED. try dove. then, using a shave oil (AVOID INSIDE UR LIPS) use a womans razor, ive had amazing results with the gillete venus pubic razor. pull up a little on your skin when shaving, only go down (with grain of hair) SOMETIMES sideways, NEVER UP. shave as much or as little as you want. when youre done, dry yourself, then use a toner only on the front part and lightly moisterize. youre welcome.