
Best piece of advice for you. She was either pushing or surgically removing a child from her. If she asks you to tell family not right now, just do it. At the end of the day I don’t think she would care if you said it was coming from her. She had a birth plan. She did it amazingly in 100% just listen to the one in charge
It sounds to me like you either feel like you owe family your space or have family who demand constant availability. So just FYI, no one is entitled to your time and space. No one is entitled to your sister’s time and space. You are both entitled to your own privacy. You are both allowed to say no.