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done everything to try to be okay w my bf watching p0rn. i just can’t handle it without it making me sick. together for 2 1/2 years but i think i just gotta break up w him fr

Anonymous 1w

if you've told him it's a dealbreaker for you and he hasn't stopped, you have your answer

Anonymous 1w

don’t settle girl, just break up with him. watching porn while in a relationship is so strange and shouldn’t be normalized

Anonymous 1w

My bf stopped as soon as I said it made me uncomfortable. His exact words were “I would never want to make you sad or uncomfortable, if me doing that makes you feel tht way then I’ll absolutely stop”

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Anonymous 1w

raise those standards 🗣️🗣️

Anonymous 6d

please have boundaries. don’t tolerate something you’re not okay with otherwise it’ll always be a problem

Anonymous 6d

my gf and i watch porn together because we’re both okay with it. if you don’t like him doing it and he won’t listen, then you’re not meant to be together.

Anonymous 6d

If you aren't okay with it but he wants to do it and you cannot find a compromise then you are not compatible.

Anonymous 1w

I’d rather be single than date a man who watches that. Ew.

Anonymous 1w

leave now

Anonymous 6d

If he needs porn when he could just beat his shit to you then hes not the one

Anonymous 6d

My bf had a secret porn addiction for 10 years. He didn’t care how I felt. If you don’t like that he’s doing it, leave. It isn’t worth it.

Anonymous 1w

If he doesn’t care about your boundaries enough to stop doing something, then regardless of the subject, the relationship isn’t worth pursuing. The right person for you will respect whatever boundaries you have. If porn is more important to him than your boundaries, then it’s not worth it to try convincing him.

Anonymous 1w

I mean i dont necessarily think its okay to dictate whether or not its okay to watch porn in a relationship, i do think if thats something youve tried to work on and it still negatively affects your relationship, you should probably leave

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Anonymous 6d

went thru the same shit makes u feel so unsexy. leave his ass and hit the streets mama!

Anonymous 6d

Literally every guy on earth watches porn. Any guy that says he doesn’t is lying.

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Anonymous 1w

I’m not gonna lie to you every man on earth watches porn so it is what it is

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Anonymous

#1 1w

Said as you lied to her☠️

Anonymous

#2 1w

Every man watches porrrnnnn

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Anonymous

#1 1w

And i KNOW thats a damn lie😂😂

Anonymous

#2 1w

Why would that be a lie? Okay 90% does better?

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Anonymous

#1 1w

Its prob more like 80% but every man does not watch porn

Anonymous

#1 1w

it's a high percentage, sure, but it's certainly not 100%

Anonymous

#3 1w

Might as be at this point. It’s not anything less than 80% so what would it matter. Most men you will ever encounter will watch or have before

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Anonymous

#1 1w

what i’m saying like i might just have to be single for life there’s no men that are willing to be better…

Anonymous

#1 1w

Have before sure but i think almost everyone is exposed to it at some point its just a matter of choosing to continue or not. Good men dont watch porn

Anonymous

#1 1w

setting aside any moral judgment, if your partner asks you not to do something, you should stop doing it. I can't see how watching porn could be more important than your significant other's feelings.

Anonymous

#3 1w

I don’t think it’s your business to control what your partner does in their private time. I’m a girl and watch porn in private time occasionally. He is allowed to watch if it’s not affecting our sex life. Not my business. So no you sound controlling

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Anonymous

#1 1w

Everyone is allowed to be uncomfortable with certain things the same way you’re allowed to be comfortable with it lets not put other women down okay🫶❤️

Anonymous

#1 1w

I don't think it's that simple... in this case, it IS harming OP emotionally. Again, I'm not going to judge whether I think that's reasonable or not, but it's clearly true. If you have no problem with it, that's obviously fine, and I don't think it's okay to just arbitrarily tell your partner not to do things for your own amusement, but this isn't that.

Anonymous

#10 1w

good boyfriend!

Anonymous

#10 6d

Correction: he told you he stopped

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Anonymous

#7 6d

It’s perfectly reasonable to have that boundary. It’s his choice, but clearly that just means they aren’t compatible and they should break up. Don’t make it seem like having boundaries means controlling someone else’s actions. Thats not a boundary.

Anonymous

#11 6d

I bet you’re a guy with an addiction

Anonymous

#1 6d

The only porn my man watches now is the sex videos he and I made together. Idc if he watched it before we became a couple that’s totally okay

Anonymous

#15 6d

If he had high body count, would that be ok

Anonymous

#16 6d

Ex*

Anonymous

#11 6d

This sounds like the everybody cheats arguments

Anonymous

#21 6d

No. The percentage of people that cheat is probably less than 10%. The percentage of guys that watch porn is literally 100%.

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Anonymous

#11 6d

me when i lie

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Anonymous

#3 6d

Keep that same energy when a man asks you not to wear something or not to see certain people anymore

Anonymous

#11 5d

Seeing less than 10% almost made me redact my statement ngl

Anonymous

#11 4d

lol, it’s around 25-40%, not 10