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As someone who’s never had any luck with guys, and quite literally yearns for a man. What is something that you guys do to stay patient with gods timing?
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Anonymous 3d

Focus on becoming a good wife (reading that word, treating your body like a temple, becoming emotionally secure if that makes sense) remember that being quick to get in a relationship is literally gonna keep you from your husband so be patient cause it’ll be worth it

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Anonymous 3d

Personally, firstly, I’m not going to make god do the heavy lifting. It’s a mistake to be too passive and expect love to come to you. Do you want advice on how to find a man?

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Anonymous 2d

better myself so i am ready for a relationship hobby, school, work, gym, my other relationships (friends/family)

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Anonymous 2d

what helped me was focusing on myself and not really going out of my way to find someone. i’m in a great relationship now and it really came out of no where and at a time i wasn’t looking for a relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Yes, but also like everyone tells me not to look. So like is it bad for a girl to make a first move?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Not at all imo, i think "not looking" means more like going wayyyy out of your way to find someone. If you know someone and you want to, why not?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

That’s super true, ig I just have to find someone I’m interested in then. Idk I always clam up when I talk to an attractive guy. Which is so weird because I’m confident by myself and I’m content with where I am right now and how I’m making changes with myself betterment. But is it weird to say I think I got too comfortable in being alone?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

You definitely should look! I don’t see what they would think is wrong with that. Guys want that. And it’s totally normal to get nervous when you talk to someone you’re attracted to, lol, most people do, including the cool men. Don’t let it stop you. Sometimes it’s really quite cute!

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