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Why do girls date guys who don’t give af about their emotional needs or treat them like complete shit?
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Anonymous 2w

Why do guys date girls who don’t give af about their emotional needs or treat them like complete shit and then cry about how all women are bad? Bad people exist in every gender. If you think that women generally go for pieces of shit and not pieces of shit disguise themselves as normal nice men, then I’m afraid you should be more worried about your lack of intellect than what the opposite sex is up to

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Anonymous 2w

Lack of self respect and insecurity.

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Anonymous 2w

1. Emotional manipulation. Shit people typically don’t show that they are shit people until later and just when someone is fed up, they bring back the loving adoring person they were originally.

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Anonymous 2w

Some people don’t know what normal and healthy relationships look like. They think certain things are “just how it is with relationships/men”, but it’s not. They might not have good examples to show otherwise.

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Anonymous 2w

Okay here’s an actual answer: men (the ones we’re discussing not all for yall trolls out there)don’t act like that on the first date.They act like a loving nice guy.They don’t act like it on the second, or the third,or the fourth.Suddenly they’re officially dating exclusively

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Anonymous 2w

as a guy i lowk be doing ts bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Nah but I fear it’s more common with girls

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Tbh it exist everywhere, with men it’s a lot more apparent and in your face so it’s extremely noticable they don’t care. With women it’s small hints here and there like little gestures to piss you off and when you fully realize it your basically months deep. Both parties do it, mens abuse go noticed and womens abuse is more ignored.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 2w

2. That’s all they’ve known. They have always been treated poorly and just think that’s how all relationships are. Maybe their parents were like that too and they think at least it isn’t worse or that this is as good as it gets.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 2w

3. This is someone they have been with for a very long time and they slowly became an asshole but feel emotionally indebted to them for the times they stuck by their side before.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 2w

4. They are literally indebted to them like live with them or owe them money or something and feel like they can’t leave because of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 2w

5. Mental health issues. They believe they are a horrible person because maybe they are mean in their head or have done something wrong so they feel they deserve the treatment.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 2w

6. Are just really empathetic and think their partner just needs to feel loved or had a rough time recently or in childhood or something and think that they can help them feel loved and learn to show love in return.

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 2w

There are probably some other reasons I’m missing too but these are the ones I can think of rn. It applies to guys who stay with partners who treat them poorly too

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2w

Then he starts doing a little less.Then less, and less.now there’s deep feelings involved and the relationship is probably connected to other friendships or even family which makes it easier to ignore the way he treats you, because it’s harder to break up an intricate relationship like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Go to therapy instead of taking it out on women. God you’re a pathetic fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2w

Are you saying you are dating women and treating them like shit or that you are staying in relationships when they are treating you poorly?

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